This
thread might seem to be contradictory or perhaps very difficult to fathom.
Inviting your friend to your church doesn’t seem to be easy and most times
wouldn’t be possible too. In several churches today, there are different kinds
of personalities in them (member); there are some persons we call fervent (Very
serious believers) and the other, normal or average members (Church goers).
Convincing
a church goer to come to your is very simple and easy to get it done. This
doesn’t require much work or talk or perhaps conviction. Whereas these people I
call the fervent members are very difficult to convince and get them down to
your church.
Now, on
this content, I am gona teach you how to invite the both types to your church
without stressing out yourself or even forcing them to do so. But rather, I
will teach you not specified on one terms only, but will on several ways to do
it legally and normal.
Also,
church services help bring together people of a shared faith for worship as
well as community-building activities. Some people invite friends and family
members who are either practicing Christians from another church or Christians
who have lapsed in their church attendance altogether. Others invite
non-Christians to church in the hope that those invited might enjoy the
experience and become practicing Christians.
Whomever you reach out to, it's
important to be respectful and kind when you invite someone to join you at your
church.
Here
below are the means or ways on how to invite a friend to your church;
ALSO
READ: 3 Challenges Young People Encounter
RECOGNISE POTENTIAL CHURCHGOERS
The
first step to inviting someone to your church is to identify individuals who
would be open to attending services but do not currently go. This will most
likely be someone you know who is a practicing Christian who attends services
at another church, or someone who still identifies as a Christian but has
stopped attending services. The easiest people to approach with an invitation
will probably be: family members, friends, co-workers or classmates and your
neighbours.DECIDE WHEN TO INVITE THEM
Before
you actually approach someone about attending church, you may want to consider
when would be an ideal occasion. Having a firm date in mind will make it easier
to invite someone. Instead of a general open invitation, you can name a
specific date and ask if that person is free to join you.
Many
non-churchgoers prefer to attend church services on a Sunday morning. Weekdays
(weekly activity) may be difficult, whereas Sundays are often a leisure day for
most people who work Monday through Friday.PRINT AN INVITATION
Printing an invitation will make your invitation look very concrete and tactile reminder to the program you are inviting them. This should come alongside with the relevant information like the date & time for the programme.
KEEP IN TOUCH WITH THEM
You
can’t possibly get them to your church without reminding them regularly. And
this in particular will be done through keeping in touch with them possibly by
calling them, visiting them, texting them and lots more method. This will
seriously help in achieving your goal.
LIVE POSITIVELY
Most
times, with our lifestyle, we don’t necessarily need to invite them officially
but rather with our lifestyle; people would want to come to your church. When
we live a positive life, people will thirst and hunger to know the church you
attend and would also want to attend also.
OFFER AN INVITATION
If
you're inviting a non-Christian to church, it may be difficult to immediately
win that individual over. She may have preconceived notions of what church is
supposed to be like (which may be unappealing to her), or she may simply have
no initial desire to be a part of a faith group. For this reason, it may be
easier to invite a non-churchgoer incrementally by first inviting her to social
functions and working your way up to mass.
Try
socializing with the individual a little. Invite her to coffee or lunch, and
show a sincere interest in whatever is going on in that person's life. Invite
the individual to a church function. If your church has a donation drive, ask
if she'd like to be a part of the effort. You might also try inviting the
individual to a potluck dinner or a bingo event.
Work
your way towards inviting the individual to an actual church service. Try using
some special occasion for your invitation, like a holiday service, a mass with
a children's choir, or a mass with some type of special music (like a folk
choir). This can be a good icebreaker for attending church, as it shows the
individual something fun and engaging while also welcoming that individual into
the community.
Remember to respect the individual's choice. If she does not
want to go, or if she goes and does not like church, that's okay. You can take
comfort in the fact that you extended an invitation to a non-churchgoer, and
you've been a good ambassador for your faith. Just be sure to continue to show that
individual respect.
IDENTIFY THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED OF CHURCH
Anyone
can be invited to church, but some people are easier to reach out to than
others. The people closest to you are probably aware of your faith, and may
even be curious about it. For this reason, you may want to
think carefully about which people in your life are most likely to be open to
attending church.
Family
members are the most likely to know about your faith, and may have questions or
a sincere desire to share in your weekly worship. Close friends are another
good branching out point. You most likely have a close bond of intimacy and
trust that can help you invite these individuals to share in your faith.
Neighbours
may be ideal people to approach.
These individuals know and trust you. They
also live in close proximity to you, which means they probably live in close
proximity to your place of worship.
Co-workers
and classmates are a big jump from family, friends, and neighbours. These
individuals may not know you very well, which means you may have to work harder
to gain their trust and recognize their needs for faith or community.
Strangers
will be very difficult to invite to church. These individuals do not know you
or have any kind of relationship with you. You may assume someone you meet is
in need of faith or a spiritual community, but it can be hard to appeal to that
person's needs if they don't already know you on some level.
EVANGELISE
This
will I say, is the best way to bring people down to your church without
stressing yourself. It is very good for every believer to move out for
evangelism because its’ an avenue to reach out to souls and to win souls for
Christ. Although, they might not necessarily come to your church; but what
really matters here is that you have converted them to a particular church. Try
moving out for evangelism and see how it works.
Having
read this thread, I hope you’d realise the ways on how to invite people to your
church. Was this article helpful? If yes, i would love to see your feedback
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on this thread will really be appreciated too. Thanks.
interesting...what an insightful thoughts
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